For some people, sex toys are to be used privately as a masturbatory aid. However, sex toys can actually enhance your sex life in many ways that you may have not considered. While some find the initial purchase of a sex toy difficult, many feel that bringing up using a sex toy either on their own or with a partner can be quite a big step.
There are many pros to using sex toys in a relationship as they are designed to enhance pleasure, bringing new sensations to your physical intimacy.
Getting to know your own needs
While it’s more than likely that you were already having sex before you used a sex toy for the first time, toys can help you understand your own personal needs better. Through exploring your own body in different ways, it might make it easier for you to tell your partner what you need to feel satisfied.
IF you struggle to orgasm through penetrative sex and many women do, using a small vibrator on your clitoris can help or incorporate using a sex toy during foreplay so you enjoy your orgasm beforehand and don’t have to worry about having an orgasm duirng sexual intercourse.
Some women are completely put off by the idea of masturbating with their own fingers, but owning a sex toy is a great way to fulfil your needs and feel more comfortable with your own intimate areas.
Some men or women may feel that their partner using a sex toy means that they are not being satisfied sexually. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Sex toys offer alternative ways of sexual sensation and pleasure to enhance sex play.
However, some women purchase vibrators due to medical reasons, such as Vaginismus (vaginal tightness). Through using toys in different ways – such as using an internal product externally – a woman is more likely to become more intune with her body, likes, and dislikes during the healing process.
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