Introducing Adult Toys into A Long-term Relationship

I know, I know – you don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings with the suggestion of bringing adult toys into the bedroom, especially if it’s with someone you’ve been with for a while, but adult sex toys are meant to enhance you and your partner’s sexual experience to help #makebetterlove.

Whether you’re experienced in using sex toys with a partner or have only used them for solo play, I’m sure the thought of bringing an adult toy into the bedroom with your long-term partner has you thinking of all the pleasurable twists they can add.

Let us walk you through a few simple tips to go about bringing adult toys into the bedroom with you and your partner and take your passion to new, orgasmic heights.

What we’ll be covering:

  • Recommending Adult Sex Toys to Your Long-Term Partner
  • Choosing Your Sex Toys
  • Did My Partner Like Using Sex Toys?

Recommending Sex Toys to Your Long-Term Partner

Communication is key, and by now you likely know that with your partner. Nothing changes when it comes to introducing new and exciting twists and turns in the bedroom.

Make sure the conversation is two-sided and leave the “me” out of it for now. To avoid making it sound as if you are dissatisfied with your partner try to look at ways you will both benefit from introducing adult toys into the bedroom.

Instead of saying, “I can’t orgasm when we have sex anymore, so I want to buy a vibrator.” Try, “I think it would be so sexy if you used a vibrator on me while we have sex.” Allow for your partner to realize they are still the one giving you the pleasure you desire and will only be enhancing this sexual experience with an adult toy.