Have a read and help your lover open their arms, and hopefully their legs, to the fabulous world of sex toys…
Forget meeting the parents, this is the introduction that can really get your heart racing. Letting new partners know about your interest in sex toys can be a pretty daunting task but there is really no need to worry. Just follow these steps and let the good times roll… Because anything that helps you reach the “Big O” is a friend, not a foe.
Introducing a sex toy doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with the relationship
And it definitely doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with the sex! Sex toys are here to ramp up an already awesome sex life and make everything even better than it already is. The purpose of sex toys is to help you and your partner reach orgasm more quickly, or experience multiple orgasms, and when are more orgasms ever a bad thing?? The more the merrier I say.
Talk about it first – don’t just hip one out mid session!
This may seem like a good idea in the heat of the moment but, trust me, it’s not. You might think that because you are both aroused your partner may be willing to give it a go but it is more likely that you will put them off the idea and ruin the moment. Bring up the topic of sex toys up before you get down to business and find out what their opinion is on the matter and whether they are down for that particular sex toy introduction or not. You might find out that they are totally into the same sort of adult toys, or at least willing to give it a go.